I will just get right down to it. I just hate it when people think they know everything and that they must be right in every situation. I mean how can you know what someone else is thinking or feeling unless you hear their side of the story. And that they don't even want to take the time to listen because they think they are so much superior then you.
Some people just really need to get over themselves. If you think that I am in the wrong then have the balls to say so instead of ignoring the situation and talking crap behind my back.
Or do you think that it is alright to make your own judgement and not hear all sides?
Some people will only hear what they want to hear anyway. Drives me crazy.
ReplyDeleteI learned a while ago (the hard way) not to care too much about what people think for most of them will let you down anyhow. A few close friends works out pretty well--and if they judge you w/o all the facts, then they can easily be removed from one's circle of friends!
ReplyDeleteWe can only control how we react to the actions of others after all.
I think ideally that making any judgement is hard because there is no way we will ever really know all sides of a situation. We can only make a judgement based on our own reaction to what we hear and how we ourselves process that information...so difficult but such a good thing to think about!
ReplyDeleteOh - man ... I love that quote. And that perspective. It sort of goes hand in hand with my post. :)
ReplyDeleteKristen
Love that quote! Some people are quick to point the finger. It's frustrating!
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